My Dearest;

It is often said, that a mind is a terrible thing to waste, which is true. But if I may push the envelope a little further; I would also tell you that in someone else’s hand, a mind is a terrible thing to behold. Why? Simply because if you are able to control the mind, then you control: the heart, the will, the emotions and decisions – you control the entire terrain. Thus you have in your very hands the power to create a world where the subject and all that pertains to it is under your complete rule. And regardless of anyone who tries to stake their claim or reclaim that which was lost, you remain in power. . . . . . . . Oh yes, it is very much indeed a game of thrones.

Furthermore, if someone is able to control your mind, then they have the power to inflict upon you mental torment and emotional anguish in the cruelest way. Fears come alive in the most dreadful way when someone controls your mind. Reality is distorted when someone controls your mind. The truth is heavily veiled when someone controls your mind. Your decisions are not your own when someone controls your mind. And your body is no longer your temple when someone controls your mind. Therefore, we can successfully conclude – that you are in the greatest danger of your life when someone controls your mind.

Now, in this “game”, there are many different doorways that lead to manipulation. There is the emotional and mental turmoil, which is often coupled with anger and fear. There is the vulnerable mind which gives way to false imaginations and a distorted view of reality. There is the weakened heart, plagued with loneliness; that often triggers poor decision making and a gravitational pull towards poisonous attachments. And there is the broken spirit, sickened with insecurity and a lack of self worth. All of these vulnerable places in your life provides one the access needed to come in and manipulate you. And like any coup, they will hostilely invade your territory and begin to systematically break all systems down. It is a slow yet steady process, with the aim of one day assuming complete control.

Think of a country that is living their days in peace and prosperity. All of a sudden, a rebel group – gluttonous for power, finds a flaw in their defenses and invades a coastal region to the north. The remaining regions of that country are still functioning well, as they have not yet felt the waves of the coup. But over time, as the rebels drive further south – the waves of the invasion are felt all over. However by this time it is too late to stop them – for they have gained way to much ground. At this point it would take a strong, strategically proficient, and tactical military with great heart and might to drive them out. And this would most likely take some time. Yet, this would not be necessary if their borders had been efficiently patrolled and secured from the start. Therefore just as ones country is worth securing and protecting; so is your: mind, body, heart, soul, and spirit. You are worth surveying, you are worth your own investment; and as long as you can help it – you are worth protecting. You’re too valuable to loose.

Here is something to ponder. You can dismiss a hater and you can confront a bully. You can refute false accusations and silence a liar. You can even fend off a thief and conquer your enemy. But when someone or something has possession over your mind, the great contender becomes – the surrendered. And suddenly you begin to realize that all of your defenses are down – for you have been paralyzed. Most importantly, you have been paralyzed by fear. Be sure to realize that the former represents a victors strength; yet the latter reveals a victims helplessness. Thus, if someone is trying very hard to manipulate you – could it be possible that you are worth far more than you’re able to comprehend? Could it be, that there is so much more to you than what meets the eye?

So then who will you become? Will you rise to become the Great Contender; or will you kneel to become The Surrendered? Only one can sit at the throne……

 

The Art of Manipulation Part III Will Return Soon

 

Enjoy “Song of The Lonely Mountain” by Neil Finn, from The Hobbit: An Unexpected Journey