My Dearest;

Many of us were expected, and many of us were a surprise. However many of us were completely unexpected. We were considered a mistake, and in that regard we shouldn’t even be alive. Nevertheless, nine months in the womb, a few hours (or days) of intense labour to say the least – and here we are. We are precious little babes born with our own unique personalities. And whether those who have peopled our youth realize it or not; we are something quite beautiful to behold. We are individuals with our own proclivities; blossoming as we learn and grow in and through life. Thus from nature to nurture, and love to faith; our ways are established, and we develop in our own different way.

Character begins to form, and with that specific preferences and ideals. Dreams also begin to form, and with that comes great aspirations. So from our youth to adulthood: we are ever learning, we are ever growing, and we are always overcoming. We are simply finding our way, as we progressively discover who we really are. And that is something that we all never really stop doing, for we are constantly evolving. Thus from one phase to another, we are always in transition.

Why am I saying all of this you may ask, what is my point? I share all of this to simply say – that you are extraordinary. You are unique, you are beautiful, you are a masterpiece; and you have a purpose. Even more so, just as no fingerprints are alike – you can rest assured that none of us are the same. You are simply one of a kind. Indeed we are works in progress, but we are works of art. A canvas that never ceases to amaze as time reveals its true Beauty. Therefore it matters not how you came into this world, but what matters is how you go out – your legacy.

So whether you are: quirky, goofy, shy, outgoing, or adventurous. Whether you are a: conservative, liberal, moderate, nerd, or hipster. Whether you were: planned, unexpected, or discarded. And whether you are: classically urbane, gracefully dictative, vibrantly urban, or anywhere in between – you are you. And you are Wonderful!! Therefore celebrate the great in you, improve the good, and challenge the bad. Work on yourself and strive to improve your ways. A great family name, money, or your talent may afford you your dreams. But it is your character that will keep you there. So admit to your flaws, set out to change them – and then continue to change, learn, and grow. Continue to beautifully evolve. They say that life has a way of changing us, yes? But if and as we change, let us try to change for the better.

Therefore stand firmly in the authority and affirmation of yourself, and celebrate you – for you are loved. Allow no one to change you into who they want you to be, and discard anything that degrades you. For that is your mind, your body, your soul, and your spirit. That is your future. Therefore guard and protect your treasures to the best of your ability. And guard and protect the very essence of you at all costs. Chase after your dreams and fulfill your purpose in this world. Give this life of yours everything that you have got; and do it all by being courageous, good, benevolent, and true. But never forget to do it all while being YOU. Thus when you have spoken your last line, when you have danced your last dance, and have sung your last song; you can say with deep conviction – that you have done it all. And that you have done it Your Way.

Sincerely,

Krystal K.

 

Enjoy listening to “My Way” by the late, the great – Frank Sinatra